Book Review: You Are a Badass

   Since graduating in May from Roanoke College, one of my summer goals was to read 5 books. I have finally finished one of them only to realize that I better log in more reading time if I am going to meet my goal. My mom eats murder mysteries for breakfast. I read a lot of nonfiction and tend to slog through several tomes over the course of a year.
   "You are a Badass" by Jen Sincero can be found under the self-help section of your bookstore. She's a straight-talking coach who guides us through her pitfalls as well as our own. She knows the traps of negative self-talk and not being connected to our "source energy."
    The greatest impact in this book for me came towards the end when she talks about our relationship with money. My family has had several rocky relationships with money and finances. We were taught that you had to work your ass off to make good money and if you asked for a raise, forget it, you kept working until you had a better job. I did not realize that I was carrying negative feelings about money. It is the reason why I feel like I always had just enough to get by and it was in my voice.
   So what is this book helping me accomplish? I am working on my own Manifest Destiny; my personal mission statement and what I want my life to look like from this point forward. I'm making a dream board so that I can visually connect goals. It will give me a sense of concreteness. I think that is important when reaching your goals.
   Buy the book or borrow it. You won't regret the honesty and second glance at your life! And great news! She is coming out with a follow-up in April 2017, "You Are a Badass at Making Money!

Coffee at Home: Starbucks Bright Sky Blend

   Review time! The man noticed we were running low on K-Cups and picked up new blends. He knows that I have an affinity for light brews (higher caffeine content! less bitter!) and snagged the Bright Sky Blend off the store shelf. The blend is mild with nut overtones. I am not sure what they did to create this blend but it has replaced my Starbucks Veranda favorite, Willow.

What's your favorite blend?

Hot Chocolate, Reflections, Summer Reading List

   The man is asleep and I am plotting my course for the week while sipping hot chocolate that I made in the Keurig. It's an off-brand called Cafe Escapes and at least it did not let all the chocolate flavor escape by being drowned in water. I have had worse, that's for sure.
   Today was my Sunday since I worked yesterday. My workplace's schedule runs Monday through Sundays anyways so I may as well get used to that until I decide to do something else. It has been a little over a week since a graduated from Roanoke College. So far, I have applied to several job prospects outside of what I am currently doing as a part-time gig and I am starting a home-based business. I have been spending half of my time in Goodview and the other half in Roanoke. I kind of like it like that. I plot and plan in the woods with access to a hot tub and when I get into the city, I do what I have planned. Besides, my bestie is back at Roanoke College for a three week intensive learning class.
   I had planned to get a lot of things done last week but I think I was on post-graduation high and several hundred hours of sleep. I went to bed when I wanted. I napped when the spirit moved me. Nothing was really pressing except some cleaning that had to be done before my sister's came in to celebrate my graduation and Mother's Day.

From left to right: My sister Victoria, me, my sister Alex behind me, and sistah from anudda mudda Dominique

   This week, I get a better idea of what my free time looks like and how to allocate it to more appropriate activities. My work hours are increasing slightly until the dreaded 40 hours are a necessary evil. There may be times when it appears that I am working more than that since I will be writing every day and... I get to read for pleasure! Finally! I am behind schedule in the Goodreads challenge. I set a goal of 25 books for this year knowing how much last semester would impact what I could do. My mom has already read 52 books this year according to Goodreads but she also runs a Mystery Book Club on the second Tuesdays of each month at Glenvar Library. I tend to read a lot of nonfiction books and a greater amount of science articles. 

   Speaking of which, I better put a dent in one of these books tonight before I fall asleep. Computer screens do not allow for good sleep hygiene. 

From Top to Bottom: Animal-Wise (I met Virginia Morell last semester!), You Are a Badass, Fire Up Your Writing Brain, Poet's Choice, The Jazz of Physics

My final jazz band performance for Roanoke College

   I will be graduating on May 7th, 2016, which means that this will be my final performance with the Roanoke College Jazz Ensemble. I was going to write some sentimental stuff here but I figure that I would save it until after graduation. Here is the line-up for the concert on Thursday, April 21st, beginning at 7:30 PM.

 Relentless

Ryan Hunt (keyboards)

Matthew Spano (guitar)

Andre Schneider (keyboards/piano)

Cobbletone

Matthew Spano (guitar)

Shane Clark (bari sax)

Amanda Wright (alto sax)

Lost One

Premiere Performance of an original piece by student Brent Bailey

It is a rock piece that sounds like a cross between Pink Floyd, Yes, and Rush

Chris Neikirk (vocals)

Brent Bailey (guitar and vocals)

Manteca

Ryan Hunt (keyboards)

Jonathan Cribb (trumpet)

Nathan Price (trumpet)

Amanda Wright (alto sax)

Shane Clark (bari sax)

Don Wimmer (tenor sax)

Boogie Stop Shuffle

Matthew Hunt (keyboards)

Matthew Spano (guitar)

Tripper Coyner (trombone)

Shane Clark (bari sax)

Andre Schneider (keyboard/piano)

Chris Neikirk (drums)

Persian Tea and a Blog Tour

   Sipping Persian Tea at Mill Mountain in Salem is a wonderful way to relax the mind. In this case it relaxed me enough to remember that my friend, Janeson Keeley, challenged me to continue the Virtual Blog Tour. Janeson and I have been following each other around on the interwebs for a few years now. We officially met during an intermission at a play put on by Showtimers Theater last June. Her and Dan Smith pal around the Roanoke Valley so it was a pleasure to see these two friends together in what I consider a rare spot to run into people, kind of like finding that magical unicorn, considering their stomping grounds are usually in the woods or one of the many mountaintops surrounding the Roanoke Valley. Check the links in today's blog to discover more to add to your growing reading list!

The Four Questions

1. What am I working on?

      Currently, I am working on an outline for two e-books which will serve as guides for parents and students. The first e-book I am working on is about Math Anxiety and coping mechanisms. It will also include a chapter about a little known executive functioning disorder called Dyscalculia. The second e-book I plan on writing is a resource for students, parents, and teachers about science fairs. I have extensive experience in running science fairs behind the scenes as well as judging projects. I will reveal a few secrets on what award-winning projects tend to do that separates them from the crowd. 

      Until those are released, I am working on rebooting several blogs that are attached to community or business pages. In less than a month, I will be freed from the shackles of college student life and entering the real world. Since I am an introvert by nature, as real as my brain will allow me to go. 

2. How does my work differ from others of its genre?

  

       I consider the work that I do to fall in the category of creative nonfiction. Some of the blog posts are based on personal experiences while others are highly technical. It depends on several factors: my audience, the topic, and how far I want that message to reach. Some messages I want read by other people with a similar technical background. This is the case with my Meteorology and Oceanography blog. For my education blog, Learning Connections,  I tend to mix personal stories and experience with relevant information for parents and students. For this blog, I keep my tone a bit on the light-hearted side as a break from the serious adult. 

       As I am writing this, I realize that when I write there is a cup of coffee or tea at hand. Therefore, I am pulling the personal blog, Exponential Ramblings, offline as it no longer serves a purpose and continuing to cull down Entrepreneurial Spirit by placing the green posts (ones that have no time limit or expiration) on my profile on LinkedIn. Exponential Ramblings will be turned into a memoir or poetry book at some point in the future. 

       I feel that by limiting how far my voice is spread through blogs that I may be able to devote more time and attention to shaping my voice while I learn how to convey high scientific language to a format that is accessible to the general public. Science literacy and accessibility is a top priority for me. 

3. Why do I write what I do?

       

      I think I explained this question above. But allow me to be more specific and simplistic...

My greatest pet peeve is happy ignorance. I think we perform a disservice to humanity when we ignore and allow injustice to occur. The only way to combat ignorance is through communication and increased access to education. 

4. How does my writing process work?

       It's sporadic at the moment. I lay the blame squarely on Roanoke College. Truly. What happened to read this section, attend lecture, you will see it on the midterm and final exams? Everything we turn in is graded. I am not sure if the busy work actually helps one learn something or if it is to make sure we don't get blindingly obliterated by alcoholic beverages on a nightly basis. The jury is out on that. 

      Before Roanoke College there was Virginia Western Community College. Most of my classes were online and I had far more free time than I expected. My GPA in my liberal arts classes was a 3.9. My math classes dropped that to a 3.2. I love online classes. I am a self-starter. I don't need poking and prodding and would often have all the coursework done except for major papers by midterm. 

      What I learned is that I have the same tenacity when it comes to writing. My perfect process is having blocks of time devoted to writing daily as well as publishing at least one blog post per day. Here is an example of what my perfect writing day looks like:

6 AM: Wake up, make coffee and breakfast, scour research articles in science and education

8 AM: Write, write, write

Noon: LUNCH!

1 PM: Write, write, write

3 PM: Walk the dog, go to the beach, paint... do something that is not writing!

4 PM: Check science articles that posted during the day

5 PM: Dinner!

6 PM: Spend time with family and loved ones or attend networking events 

9 PM: Plan for the next day. 

Keep in mind that this is what I look forward to when I can on a typical Saturday. It may even look like my Saturday coming up as I prepare for end of term.